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Mary
Hammond Iber, a librarian at Cornell College who lived in Mount Vernon,
Iowa, died unexpectedly in her sleep on Jan. 2, 2014. She was 64. Six
days earlier, she had surgery for an aortic dissection, and she had been
discharged from the hospital to recover at the home of one of
her brothers, George Hammond, in Orinda, Calif., the evening before she
passed away.
She spent a
joyful Christmas with her son and his family, including her new
grandson, before she suddenly became ill. In the following days, she was
comforted by visits to the hospital from her son, a good friend, a
nephew, and four of her brothers.
A consulting
librarian for natural sciences and kinesiology and a college archivist
at Cornell’s Cole Library, Mary was known for helping faculty and
students find the answers to their science questions, and acting as a
mentor and advisor to students. From 2001 to 2010, she also taught
courses as an adjunct instructor at the University of Iowa School of
Library and Information Science. She published several articles on
library issues and presented papers at library conferences. In 2013
she achieved the status of full professor at Cornell.
She was on the
executive board of the Iowa Library Association/Association of College
and Research Libraries from 2008 to 2011 and in 2013, and had been a
member of the Mount Vernon Historic Preservation Commission since 2011.
She was also working with an Iowa team that was uncovering the
participation of Iowans in civil-rights issues in honor of the 50th
anniversary of the Freedom March.
Born Mary Patricia
Hammond on May 7, 1949, in Kenosha, Wis., she was the second of
Eugene R. and Patricia V. Hammond’s 12 children and the oldest
daughter.
Mary’s childhood days were filled with many adult responsibilities:
caring for her younger siblings, cooking for them, cutting their hair,
and cleaning the house, alongside doing her schoolwork, enjoying a
special group of friends, and playing the organ, piano, and cello.
Mary graduated from
St. Mark the Evangelist Grade School in 1963 and from St. Joseph
High School in 1967. She then attended Marquette University, along with
Margo Hammond, her cousin and close friend. Mary’s high-school
experience of working in the office of the orthodontist Dr.
Baumgartner guided her toward a major in dental hygiene. To help put
herself through college, she worked every summer, for two years as a
waitress at Mars Cheese Castle and one year serving food at Great
Lakes Naval Station, on a shift that began before dawn. She earned a
bachelor’s of science in dental hygiene from Marquette in 1971. After
graduation, she moved to Madison, Wis., where she was an instructor in
the dental auxiliary programs at Madison Area Technical College for two
years. She also learned Transcendental Meditation and later became a
Transcendental Meditation teacher. For the rest of her life, she
used meditation as a way to turn within, and she followed Ayurvedic
practices of health. She enjoyed restful times at the Transcendental
Meditation Program of Fairfield, Iowa.
Her son, Patrick
Iber, was born in 1981, in Santa Cruz, Calif., during her marriage of 18
years to George Leland Iber. The family later moved to Fairfield, Iowa,
and Iowa City. Mary proudly watched Patrick go off to Stanford
University to earn a bachelor’s degree in mathematics and then the
University of Chicago to earn a Ph.D. in history.
For 12 years, she
worked as a library specialist at the testing organization ACT Inc., in
Iowa City.
She earned a master
of arts in library and information sciences from the University of Iowa
in 2000 and joined Cornell College that same year.
A devoted daughter,
she made many visits to Kenosha to care for her parents in their
declining years. Her father preceded her in death in 2000 and her mother
in 2009. Mary brought her large family together by devising homemade
greeting cards and by updating a list of everyone’s contact
information and birthdays annually. She had a sense of creativity and
fun and liked to design elaborate costumes to wear to the library’s
Halloween gathering. One year she hosted a foreign student, Smriti
Angara, in her home, and she traveled to Hyderabad, India, in 2007 for
an Indian celebration of Smriti’s wedding.
However large her
own family, Mary always found room to bring others under her wing. She
leaves behind her son, Patrick, and daughter-in-law, Nicole Louie, and
her two young grandchildren, Isaiah and Julian Iber, all of El Cerrito,
Calif.; her longtime companion, John Lediaev, of Coralville, Iowa; four
sisters, Ruth Hammond, of Falls Church, Va.; Carol Wilson, of Elkhorn,
Wis.; Theresa (Carolin Bouchard) Hammond, of Oakland, Calif.; and
Barbara Hammond, of New York City; seven brothers, Eugene R. (Kathy)
Hammond Jr., of Port Jefferson, N.Y.; Louis Hammond, of Romney, W.V.;
George (Maria) Hammond, of Orinda, Calif.; Ralph Hammond, of Oakland,
Calif.; Gary Hammond, of Ventura, Calif.; Bill (Cris) Hammond, of
Hanover, N.H.; and Peter (Michelle Miller) Hammond, of
Minneapolis, Minn.; 13 nieces and nephews; and many dear friends,
cousins, library colleagues, and Cornell College students.
A memorial
service commemorating Mary’s life will be held at Cornell College’s King
Chapel, in Mount Vernon, Iowa, at 4:30 p.m. on Saturday, February 1,
2014 with a reception to follow in the college’s Cole Library. Another
service will be held in her memory that day at 10 a.m. at St. Gabriel
and All Angels Church, in Fairfield, Iowa, A private cremation ceremony
was held at Chapel of the Chimes, in Oakland, Calif., on January 12,
2014.
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Musings: In Iber’s death, Cornell and community loses big helper
January 17, 2014
· Jake Krob
Mt. Vernon-Lisbon Sun
Reading
through Mary Iber's obituary, her helpful nature now makes perfect
sense.
A consulting
librarian at Cole Library and the archivist for Cornell since 2000, Mary
died Jan. 2 after emergency surgery Dec. 28 for an aortic dissection.
She was 64.
You might not
have known Mary. She wasn't one of those always in the news.
But she was a
big helper both on the hilltop and beyond - and leaves a tremendous
lasting impact on this place, particularly through one project.
Mary played a
lead role in getting all past copies of local newspapers - from the Sun
to it predecessors 154 years ago - online and searchable through the
library website (colelibrary.org). It's an enormous resource for
preserving the history of our community, and is making it accessible to
all.
Mary wrote
about the project in a May 2013 Cole Corner column published in the Sun.
She told of how Cole librarian Cathy Boggs had dreamt of the project for
years, and how library board member Deb George "recognized its values"
and became a champion for the project.
With that
support, helper Mary jumped in to make it a reality. She used her
expertise as an archivist, and her passion for local history as a member
of the volunteer Mount Vernon Historic Preservation Commission, to find
the way to make the project work.
It was Mary
being Mary, no doubt.
After all, she
was a helper by nature.
Her obituary
is full of examples of that attribute. The second of 12 children,
"Mary's childhood days were filled with many adult responsibilities" as
she helped care for her siblings in Wisconsin.
After moving
to Iowa, she regularly made trips to help care for her parents in
Wisconsin.
She kept her
family connected through the years: "Mary brought her large family
together by devising homemade greeting cards and by updating a list of
everyone's contact information and birthdays annually."
It was
fitting, then, that in 2000 she earned a master's in library and
information sciences from the University of Iowa, and landed a job in
Mount Vernon at Cornell.
Her job here
was to help others, particularly as a consulting librarian for the
sciences at Cornell.
The thing is,
Mary didn't see it as "just my job." She was passionate and friendly
about helping others.
The comments
following her obituary on the Cornell website tell the story best.
As Lisa White,
director of alumni engagement, said:
"Mary was
always up for a research challenge and would get a sparkle in her eye
and a gentle smile on her face whenever she was presented with one."
Others wrote
that Mary was "incredibly kind" and never made a negative comment about
anyone.
There's no
doubt that's Mary's lasting legacy - she was a helper to all.
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